Free Sandwich Generation Estate Planning Guide for California Families

Are You “Sandwiched” Between Kids and Parents?

If you’re raising children in Woodland Hills while also helping a parent in Encino, Calabasas, or Tarzana, you’re part of the Sandwich Generation. Time, money, and energy feel stretched thin—especially when a medical scare or urgent move to assisted living happens fast. This free guide from The Estate Planning & Elder Law Firm gives you clear, practical steps so you can protect your kids, support your parents, and reduce stress when life gets complicated. Along the way, we’ll point you to resources like Medi-Cal planning and how to create a kids protection plan that reflects your family’s values.

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How to create your own plan for minor children (choosing guardians, funding with life insurance, using trusts).

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How to organize parents’ legal and financial documents—wills or trusts, powers of attorney, and health directives.

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When to consider foundational estate planning versus more advanced strategies as assets grow or needs change.

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Understanding options for elder care support in Los Angeles County, from VA benefits to Medi-Cal.

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Simple checklists to coordinate care, communicate with siblings, and avoid common mistakes.

Why Estate Planning is Crucial for Caregivers:

When you’re caring for two generations, uncertainty is the enemy. Without clear documents, a parent’s sudden incapacity can leave you without authority to manage bills or make medical decisions. Without a plan for your children, a judge may choose who steps in temporarily. This guide helps you get ahead of those moments, align family roles, and put the right legal tools in place before a crisis.

About the Author


Richard M. Seff, founder of The Estate Planning & Elder Law Firm in Woodland Hills, brings a rare blend of experience: a master’s in social work, a master’s in healthcare administration, and more than three decades as an estate planning and elder law attorney. That background means guidance that’s legally sound and people-focused, tailored to how real families live and care in the West Valley.

Because Your Family Matters

Your family deserves clarity and calm. The Estate Planning & Elder Law Firm supports Woodland Hills and surrounding communities with approachable advice and actionable planning for multi-generational households.